Dealing with a diagnosis of dementia or Alzheimer’s in your loved one?
Golden Bird has a few tips to help you prepare for the caregiving road ahead and get the help you both need. First, it’s important to understand what is dementia and Alzheimers and what is the difference? People with dementia from conditions such as Alzheimer’s and related diseases have a progressive biological brain disorder that makes it difficult for them to remember things, to think clearly, and to communicate with others. It also greatly hinders one’s ability to care for themselves, thus enlisting the need for a caregiver and support. Dementia can cause mood swings and even change a person’s personality and behavior. Golden Bird has practical strategies for dealing with these changed behaviors and communication difficulties:
- Maintain a positive, calm environment and mood.
Your attitude and body language communicate your feelings and thoughts just as much as words do, and often times more so. Set a positive mood by speaking to your loved one in a calm, positive and respectful manner. Do not rely solely on one mode of communication – It’s important to use facial expressions, adjust your tone, and show what you are trying to convey, like pointing and physical touch. Be patient with your loved one and listen to them with your ears, eyes and heart. Watch for nonverbal cues and body language. Always strive to be intuitive by listening, watching and understanding the meaning and feelings that underlie your loved ones’ words or actions.
- Limit distractions and noise.
Be mindful of distracting things like the radio, TV, and clutter. For some, it’s helpful to close curtains and shut doors. Pay attention to your loved ones’ triggers and desires. Move to quieter surroundings if necessary. Before speaking, make sure you have their attention and use nonverbal cues and touch to help keep them focused. Maintain eye-level and speak directly to them when talking or asking questions.
- State your message clearly and simply.
- Respond with affection and reassurance.